How not to get annoyed while waiting

How not to get annoyed while waiting

AgenciesUpdated: Monday, February 24, 2020, 11:43 PM IST
article-image

Jerusalem: The perception of wait time at work can be reduced by priming people to think in concrete, factual terms like assuming an employee is stuck in traffic, as opposed to subjective thoughts about individual behaviour, according to a study that may lead to new ways of managing workplace delays.

The study noted that abstract thinking at work generally leads to better outcomes, such as more creativity, and wider vision, but added that it can also contribute to undesired outcomes in stressful situations, such as while waiting.

“For example, if you are waiting for someone who is late to meet you, you are better off thinking in concrete terms, like assuming they got stuck in a traffic jam compared with abstract terms, like assuming they are disrespecting you,” said study co-author Dorit Efrat-Treister from Ben Gurion University (BGU) of the Negev in Israel.

“We spend a part of our daily life waiting, and unfortunately, wait time can fuel aggressive tendencies,” Efrat-Treister said. In the study, the researchers arranged a meeting of people in a lab and each were told their partner was late. Each participant waited in separate rooms for 30 seconds, five minutes, or 10 minutes, they said.

Participants who were prompted to think abstractly perceived the waiting time as longer, and reacted more aggressively than those that were led to think concretely, .

“When someone is late for a call, if you think abstractly, you may think they don't respect your time, or they don't think the call is important, and therefore you might become mad. But if you think they may have just misplaced your number or got another call first, you won’t become so annoyed,” Efrat-Treister added.

RECENT STORIES

Akon Live In Mumbai 2025: Ticket Prices, Timings, Venue & How To Book Online

Akon Live In Mumbai 2025: Ticket Prices, Timings, Venue & How To Book Online

Madhuri Dixit & Husband Dr. Nene Dine At Vikas Khanna's 'Bungalow' In NYC: What Their Dinner Table...

Madhuri Dixit & Husband Dr. Nene Dine At Vikas Khanna's 'Bungalow' In NYC: What Their Dinner Table...

SRK@60: The Actor Who Never Just Played Roles—He Lived Them

SRK@60: The Actor Who Never Just Played Roles—He Lived Them

Nisha's Mumbai: Nisha JamVwal Writes About A Birthday For The Ages, A Festival, And The Many Shades...

Nisha's Mumbai: Nisha JamVwal Writes About A Birthday For The Ages, A Festival, And The Many Shades...

Zohran Mamdani Grew Up Eating Mother Mira Nair's Kathi Rolls, Bhindi & Chivda: Why He Calls His Now...

Zohran Mamdani Grew Up Eating Mother Mira Nair's Kathi Rolls, Bhindi & Chivda: Why He Calls His Now...