'That Is Disgusting': Pregnant Mother Plays 'Gay Music' To Baby Bump; Viral TikTok Video Triggers Debate On Internet

A social media post by conservative independent journalist Cam Higby has ignited a heated online discussion around parenting, internet culture, and the influence of social media trends on family life. The controversy began after he criticised a TikTok video that he described as “disgusting,” triggering widespread reactions across platforms.

TikTok video becomes flashpoint online

The debate started when a TikTok clip showing a pregnant woman playing music near her baby bump began circulating online. In the video, the woman plays Gimme! Gimme! Gimme! (A Man After Midnight), a popular track by Swedish pop group ABBA.

Text overlaid on the video joked about ensuring her unborn son would “turn out a little gay.” The clip appeared to be framed humorously, reflecting a growing trend on TikTok where users post exaggerated or ironic parenting content designed to spark engagement.

After reposting screenshots of the video and its comments on X (formerly Twitter), Higby argued that the reactions underneath the original TikTok were troubling. His post quickly gained traction, crossing more than 1.6 million views within a short period.

Strong reactions flood social media

As the post spread, online users responded with sharply divided opinions.

Some commenters echoed Higby’s criticism, arguing that joking about influencing a child’s sexual orientation crossed ethical boundaries. Others framed the discussion as part of a broader cultural debate around modern parenting and online activism.

Several reactions included strong language, accusations about social influence, and broader political commentary. Many users questioned whether such content trivialised parenting responsibilities or encouraged ideological messaging through humour.

Questions about sexual orientation and parenting

The viral discussion also reignited a long-running public conversation about whether sexual orientation is shaped by environment or biology.

Scientific and medical organisations generally state that sexual orientation is influenced by a complex combination of biological, genetic, hormonal, and environmental factors, and is not something parents can intentionally determine through behaviour, media exposure, or upbringing choices.

Experts have repeatedly noted that viral social media trends often rely on satire or exaggeration, which can blur the line between humour and serious belief when clips are reshared outside their original context.

The role of TikTok culture in parenting conversations

The controversy highlights how TikTok has become a major space for parenting discourse. Short-form videos frequently mix jokes, identity discussions, and lifestyle commentary, sometimes leading to misunderstandings when posts are viewed without context.

Online creators often use humour, irony, or meme culture to discuss parenting expectations, gender norms, and generational differences, but viral amplification can quickly transform niche jokes into nationwide debates.

Published on: Saturday, April 25, 2026, 02:03 PM IST