Washington : Dramatic daters – who make decisions based on negative events in the relationship – are twice as likely to break up as other couples, say scientists who have identified four different types of dating couples. A new study that sheds light on which couples move towards or away from marriage over time found that partner-focused couples rate highest in terms of increasing commitment and satisfaction, reports PTI.
“The four types of dating couples that we found included the dramatic couple, the conflict-ridden couple, the socially involved couple, and the partner-focused couple,” said Brian Ogolsky, assistant professor at University of Illinois. The researchers developed these categories after studying graphs created by 376 dating couples in their mid-twenties.
Dramatic daters are twice as likely to break up as other couples, he said. Dramatic couples also attribute changes in their commitment to time spent with their own friends or by doing things separately rather than as a couple. Partner-focused couples have the highest chance of staying together and being happy over time, Ogolsky said. “These partners are very involved with each other and dependent on each other, and they use what’s happening in their relationship to advance their commitment to deeper levels,” said Ogolsky.
Conflict-ridden couples may experience decreases in their commitment when they have an argument. Their commitment level may fall, but it doesn’t mean they’ll break up, he said. “These couples operate in a tension between conflict that pushes them apart and passionate attraction that pulls them back together. This kind of love may not be sustainable in the long term,” Ogolsky said.
Socially involved couples, like partner-focused couples, report high levels of satisfaction and stability in their relationships. These couples share a social network and rely on that network to make decisions about their commitment decisions, Ogolsky said.
